Last week, I stopped by our small local
village store (when I say small – I mean like your standard concession stand at
a little league baseball game – maybe even smaller) to pick up some
things. The elderly couple who run the
stand excitedly told me that all of the Catholic volunteers needed to make sure
to come to the Nimar Hang-up Dance on Saturday, which would start at 12:00 –
but that meant it won’t start until sometime around 1:30. The man briefly explained to me that a
hang-up dance was a traditional dance that was going to be retired for a
certain period of time. Usually hang-up
dances are done in celebration or commemoration of something. He told me that the entire village would be
there and that he was excited to see us there.
I
talked to Fr. John about the dance and he told me it was customary for everyone
to bring something to share with everyone.
He suggested a bottle of wine because everyone would want to celebrate
after. When I double checked this with
my Yapese mother, Mary, she laughed at me and told me that this hang-up dance
was being performed by children, so wine would not be the best choice. She said since we were family that the TPK
did not have to bring anything, but I insisted that we wanted to share
something, so she suggested cookies or a cake.
Thanks, Mom, for the cookies you sent – the entire village loved them (I
made a batch of my own too – but I needed more and chocolate chips are
impossible to find on the island).
On
the day of the dance, we walked the 45 seconds to the village community center
(a pavilion type structure surrounded with our village’s stone money) and sat
down. In Yapese culture, you are not
supposed to squat, or sit on little half walls (they are for leaning against),
and your legs should never dangle over the sides of anything – it makes it seem
like you are in a hurry to leave. There
were tables upon tables of local food – including an amazing crab dish that was
served in the shell, made by our amazing Mary of course. Our whole village was there – which totaled
to a little over 100 people or so. The
women and children all sat and chatted in the pavilion, while the men stood by
the little store and tattoo parlor (yes, our village is proud to be the home of
Yap Tribal Tattoo owned by our chief’s son, Leo – he is awesome).
The
children performing the dance ranged from ages 7-18 (or something like
that). One of our sophomores, Genevieve,
was performing the dance and was one of the leaders who started the
chants. All of the dancers were in local
attire and they were so proud to be representing their culture. This hang-up dance was a “Stick Dance” which
involves bamboo and a lot of intricate, well-timed motions and swinging and
hitting of the sticks to make a beat, often while chanting. It was absolutely mind-blowing. One of the most mesmerizing things I have
ever witnessed. So much agility,
control, rhythm, concentration, passion, energy.
After
the dance, the chief of our village (who also happens to be the older man who
runs the village store – I just didn’t know this at the time) brought me an
iced pineapple and coconut drink that I think was only be passed to some of the
men of the village – as he handed it to me he smiled and whispered “Oh – it is
a little spiked.” I felt honored to be
welcomed into the community of the men of the village (yes, I intentionally
worded that so that I didn’t say “village men”). I spent the next hour or so eating and talking
with the people of Nimar and meeting many new people who all assured me they
knew who I was because they all knew the Americans. The gratitude of everyone was
overwhelming. Honestly – one of the most
perfect experiences I have had on Yap thus far.
Summer in her new grass skirt |
The dancers getting ready to perform |
A brief pause in the dance |
I
am so unbelievably blessed to have this opportunity in Yap. It is so much more than just a volunteer
experience, it is a new way of living – a new way of loving.
“I want to turn
the clock back to when people lived in small villages
and took care of
each other.”
-
Peter Seeger
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